Raising a Generation of Gracious Leaders 

A Moment of Magnanimity on the National Stage 

A couple of weeks ago, I was watching a few clips from the presidential inauguration when news coverage showed Barron Trump walking over to shake the hand of President Joe Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris. Beneath the clip, the caption read “the virtue of magnanimity.” Not only was Barron a gentleman, but he also clearly extended this kind gesture of his own accord.  

The Daily Practice of Graciousness 

This example of the virtue of magnanimity captured the eyes of thousands of people. Yet, on a daily basis, there are many occasions where we can also live this virtue. It can be complimenting someone who did a better job than us or praising someone even if we won’t get noticed. To do this graciously requires inner strength and self-possession.  

Teaching Magnanimity in Schools 

In schools, the opportunities to cultivate magnanimity begin as early as kindergarten, in small ways that compliment classmates’ work. It extends to sports, drama, music, art, or when one student gets selected and another does not. Or, at the end of a game, lining up to shake hands with the opposing team. All of these occasions develop resilience and courage in the young. This leads to an inner confidence and self-possession that will enable them to be magnanimous when no one is watching or when it is simply the right thing to say or do.  

Building Character Through Small Gestures 

Barron Trump didn’t know the cameras would be watching him, yet he went over and extended his hand as any gentleman would. Isn’t this what we are striving to do as we educate the young in virtue?